asker

Anonymous asked: what is the point of this blog? as trannies you will be killed no matter what and all you can do is avoid cis ppl and gang up with other queers to attack them on tumblr

This is my first anonymous hate mail! I am so happy. (Sorry, I know that is kind of the opposite of what you’d intended, but it feels like a milestone, y’know?)

Anyway, to answer your question, this blog is not about ganging up and attacking cis people. No idea where you got that idea from. It is for calling out horrible people and compiling a list of them so that people know who to avoid. Like, if you can’t tell the difference, then I do not even know what to tell you.

kirahawk:

lookatthisfuckingcisgender:

stagged:

lookatthisfuckingcisgender:

cis hetero people are excluded from the queer community in much the same way millionaires are excluded from shelters for the homeless

I feel like that’s a really poopy way to look at things. But I’m just a white cis straight girl, so yaknow.

exactly. shut up

Hey everyone look! It’s proof that cisgendered people can be discriminated and hated too! Look! It’s real! lookatthisfuckingcisgender and others hate on people for being cisgender. It is right fucking there. Stop telling me it doesn’t happen. In fact I’m probably going to lose followers because of this. I have no problem with trans people, or gender fluid, or anyone who chooses to identify as themselves. I also fully recognize that most hate that trans people get is from cisgendered people, but that is no reason to hate on all of them. I don’t blame all of the trans community for this, just the select few like lookatthisfuckingcisgender.

I am a cisgendered straight white guy so I will probably be told “exactly. shut up”  And yes I stole a post about transgender opinions to make a point about cis hating or discrimination or whatever, I don’t know what to call it, and I recognize that can make a bunch of people angry, but I just couldn’t resist when an example so obvious appeared in front of me to show it.

Since you don’t seem quite as awful as our previous inductees, I’d like to take a moment to give some advice. That response, was not hateful. lookatthisfuckingcisgender made a perfectly sensible point, and agreed with stagged when they whined about it while acknowledging that her opinion was less valuable on the topic. Your points were attacking spectres rather than actual things, and were irrelevant to the topic at hand.

asker

onewomanareme asked: have you been raped by a transwoman? im just curious because everyone i know who has been raped has been raped by a strait male identified male or a cis woman. Have you ever hung out with a trans woman? im confused. Why do you think transwomen are rapists? if you let ppl in your space by genitals, do you let trans men with vagina's in your "womyns spaces"? Do you let trans women with vaginas in? also, what kind of gender specific spaces do you frequent?

hitchedupkid-deactivated2014010:

If you have the tools for rape, ie a penis and male socialization, then you’re a potential rapist and I don’t want to expose my genitals in a confined space with you.

some people might be cool with trans”men” but I’m not. If they’re conforming to male gender role, they are violently misogynistic.

Trans “women”,I assume you mean MTTs, do not have vaginas.

It’s funny that you claim to be radical, while simultaneously espousing the most backwards bullshit. Congratulations on being an obscenely, embarrassingly, terrible person.

flyestbuttress:

shittythingscelebshavesaid:

So, The Buttress is supposed to be the next big thing in white lady rappers, apparently? Anyway, here she is being racist and transphobic at the same time on her Twitter.

I fail to see how this is racist. It would be racist if I were being serious, because then I’d be stating that I believe all one needs to do to become a certain race is get some plastic surgery. Though seemingly this seems to be the stance of transwomen regarding gender. I’d take no offense to them if they didn’t call themselves female. Although I think wearing makeup and playing dress-up is inherently boring and a waste of time that could be much better spent, I don’t fault the many men that take a liking to it, nor do I have anything against homosexuals. My problem begins when these men want to say that they are female, and furthermore, say it to my face then call me an intolerant hate mongerer when I tell them that indeed they are not. How am I supposed to respect them if they cant respect me? I will never know what it’s like to live life in America as a minority and I would never pretend like I could. Transwomen will never know what it’s like to live life as a biological female and I find it offensive that they think surgery and clothes can do that for them. Again, I would take no offense to them if they just came up with a different name for themselves. Then i would just consider them like I do furries or whatever. People that have to go to extreme, ridiculous measures to feel ‘happy.’

flyestbuttress:

shittythingscelebshavesaid:

So, The Buttress is supposed to be the next big thing in white lady rappers, apparently? Anyway, here she is being racist and transphobic at the same time on her Twitter.

I fail to see how this is racist. It would be racist if I were being serious, because then I’d be stating that I believe all one needs to do to become a certain race is get some plastic surgery. Though seemingly this seems to be the stance of transwomen regarding gender. I’d take no offense to them if they didn’t call themselves female. Although I think wearing makeup and playing dress-up is inherently boring and a waste of time that could be much better spent, I don’t fault the many men that take a liking to it, nor do I have anything against homosexuals. My problem begins when these men want to say that they are female, and furthermore, say it to my face then call me an intolerant hate mongerer when I tell them that indeed they are not. How am I supposed to respect them if they cant respect me? I will never know what it’s like to live life in America as a minority and I would never pretend like I could. Transwomen will never know what it’s like to live life as a biological female and I find it offensive that they think surgery and clothes can do that for them. Again, I would take no offense to them if they just came up with a different name for themselves. Then i would just consider them like I do furries or whatever. People that have to go to extreme, ridiculous measures to feel ‘happy.’

Trans*

sucksatansdick:

you are most likely just a hypochondriac. 

And you are most likely just an transphobic fool. Welcome to the archive.

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Cis privilege

fuckyeahtransphobia:

iamnotjayden:

is not being told you brought violence and harassment on yourself by being “freaky” and not looking cisnormative enough.

“Cis” normative is the same as heteronormative. But you trannies keep acting like you face some special snowflake shit when you experience violence for being “freaky.” As if any gender non conformist, trans or not, isn’t in the same boat you’re in. If trans “women” fail to pass, any violence is the same kind dealt out to those cissy gay dudes. It stems from homophobia. Not twanzphobia.

You don’t appear to know the meaning of words. Welcome to the archive radscum.

WARNING: TUMBLR USER STARKHOLME-SYNDROME WILL OUT YOU

onedramaticetc:

dandeleijons:

TW: TRANSPHOBIA, APOLOGISM, RACISM, OUTING

starkholme-syndrome, or known to several of my friends as cas, is a racist trans*-hate apologist who is planning onoutingmy close friend who is transgender to their mom.

he is unapologetic about his actions, and before has said and done some incredibly racist things- when I called him out on it, I was sent incredibly triggering messages by his friend which he laughed off.

he has claimed that my friends and I, many of whom are transgender, have turned being trans* into a “fad” and have on many occasions invalidated our identities.

i could stand it until today. now he has forced my close friend to tell their parents about their gender identity or risk having him do it for them.

this is not fair. this is terrifying.

DO NOT BECOME FRIENDS WITH STARKHOLME-SYNDROME.

please. for your own safety and the safety of the people around you- he is ruthless. he does not listen to reasoning or begging. i do not want him to ruin any more lives.

sighs a lot.

yeah signal boost this please.

he is a really nasty person, and you really don’t want to associate with him holy shit.

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Cathy “Bug” Brennan’s new tumblr, after her old one was removed for great justice, is already full of this rubbish.

Cathy “Bug” Brennan’s new tumblr, after her old one was removed for great justice, is already full of this rubbish.

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mycroft-queenofengland:

This is painfully true, and extremely irritating.

No it isn’t. There seems to me to be only one reason to be spreading these obvious fabrications, and that is to discount and discredit people actually calling out ignorant cissexist fools like you two. For your amateurish demonstration of the straw man fallacy, I welcome you two to the archive.

mycroft-queenofengland:

This is painfully true, and extremely irritating.

No it isn’t. There seems to me to be only one reason to be spreading these obvious fabrications, and that is to discount and discredit people actually calling out ignorant cissexist fools like you two. For your amateurish demonstration of the straw man fallacy, I welcome you two to the archive.

jamesbayes:

What the fuck? Are you kidding me. You are by far the stupidest fucking person I’ve ever met. I saw this on my dash, and my buddy had to deal with this moron. Whoever the fuck you are, get your shit straight and go find someone else to make feel as messed up as you. Man, some peoples’ children.

Word. Who died and made you captain of the gender police, anon?

jamesbayes:

What the fuck? Are you kidding me. You are by far the stupidest fucking person I’ve ever met. I saw this on my dash, and my buddy had to deal with this moron. Whoever the fuck you are, get your shit straight and go find someone else to make feel as messed up as you. Man, some peoples’ children.

Word. Who died and made you captain of the gender police, anon?

love-otomy:

I’m probably going to lose followers for this.
There is no such thing as “cis privilege” 
Before you get your panties in a fucking bunch, no, I do not think everything is unicorns and rainbows.
But cis people are made fun of too. Look at you, saying cis scum. A bit shitty don’t you think? I know there are hate crimes against trans people, but so what? There are hate crimes against blacks, whites, gays, straights, cis, trans, atheists, christians, everyone.
This might sound shitty, but trans people aren’t special little snowflakes. Everyone has problems, everyone deals with hate. Go the fuck away because that was weeks ago. Why are you even bringing that up again? God. 

You don’t seem to have the slightest idea what privilege is, despite displaying it quite clearly. Welcome to the archive.

love-otomy:

I’m probably going to lose followers for this.

There is no such thing as “cis privilege” 

Before you get your panties in a fucking bunch, no, I do not think everything is unicorns and rainbows.

But cis people are made fun of too. Look at you, saying cis scum. A bit shitty don’t you think? I know there are hate crimes against trans people, but so what? There are hate crimes against blacks, whites, gays, straights, cis, trans, atheists, christians, everyone.

This might sound shitty, but trans people aren’t special little snowflakes. Everyone has problems, everyone deals with hate. Go the fuck away because that was weeks ago. Why are you even bringing that up again? God. 

You don’t seem to have the slightest idea what privilege is, despite displaying it quite clearly. Welcome to the archive.

asexual-not-a-sexual:

Yes, you can say “how entirely [you] disagree with that attitude.” And I can say why your opinion is ignorant and literally preventing the progression of humanity. 

No, I will not be acknowledging a half-dozen new orientations that don’t even exist in my country

I don’t think you understand how “existing” works. First, these are gender identities, not orientations. Gender is how an individual mentally views their identity. So, but this logic, no one can dictate which “exist in [your] country.” If someone claims it exists, which is how gender works, it exists. Gender is not physical thing. You can’t say, “THIS DOESN’T EXIST,” because it’s a mentality. It’s a thought process. If you think and believe it, it exists. That’s how thoughts work. Hell, you can tell someone you believe your gender involves having a man leg, a woman arm, and an agender abdomen, and it’s valid. Gender revolves around an individual’sperspective, which cannot be dictated by country. That’s not how perspective (or countries) work. 
Acknowledge it or not, but it’s there. 

and I certainly will not be using pronouns like “Ze” to refer to someone who could just as easily be refered to as “he” or “she”, depending on appearance.

Okay. So. Let me get this straight. Rather than simply acknowledging someone’s personal identity, and giving them assurance and comfort in their existence, you’re going to choose to refer to someone as you think they should exist? This is the most self-centered logic I’ve ever had the displeasure of interacting with. Do you understand that by misgendering someone you are leading to their mental and physical decline? By refusing to accept someone’s gender may be resulting in gender dysphoria—and, if you’re a  med student like your profile suggests, you know what this is. And you know how it can lead to a person resenting their body, their existence, and may result in physical harm or suicide. 
Regardless of their “appearance,” they identify a certain way. And, by ignoring their identity, you are destroying their confidence and self-worth. Is it really that important that you not learn a different two letter pronoun? You know how many times in your life you will have to refer to someone, outloud, by “ze”? Probably never. Most likely you will never have to say it. But, if someone kindly asks you to do so, why wouldn’t you? It’s a syllable. One syllable which may reassure this person that they exist, that they are human, and that they belong on this planet. 

 We’re all just people. 

You’re right, we are. We are all people. And, as people, we all deserve happiness. Happiness which you are denying someone by ignoring their pronoun preference and gender identity. 

I accept that these may come to be used by future generations, but not by me. 

“I accept that women may not be viewed as property by future generations, but not by me,” 
You are ignoring the past in an attempt to prevent the future. 
Congrats. 

Just wanted to put this out there.

Good.

Normally I don’t reblog posts of people tearing down cissexists, but it does happen. Good on ya asexual-not-a-sexual.Beguilingblackness, welcome to the archive. 

asexual-not-a-sexual:

Yes, you can say “how entirely [you] disagree with that attitude.” And I can say why your opinion is ignorant and literally preventing the progression of humanity. 

No, I will not be acknowledging a half-dozen new orientations that don’t even exist in my country

I don’t think you understand how “existing” works. First, these are gender identities, not orientations. Gender is how an individual mentally views their identity. So, but this logic, no one can dictate which “exist in [your] country.” If someone claims it exists, which is how gender works, it exists. Gender is not physical thing. You can’t say, “THIS DOESN’T EXIST,” because it’s a mentality. It’s a thought process. If you think and believe it, it exists. That’s how thoughts work. Hell, you can tell someone you believe your gender involves having a man leg, a woman arm, and an agender abdomen, and it’s valid. Gender revolves around an individual’sperspective, which cannot be dictated by country. That’s not how perspective (or countries) work. 

Acknowledge it or not, but it’s there. 

and I certainly will not be using pronouns like “Ze” to refer to someone who could just as easily be refered to as “he” or “she”, depending on appearance.

Okay. So. Let me get this straight. Rather than simply acknowledging someone’s personal identity, and giving them assurance and comfort in their existence, you’re going to choose to refer to someone as you think they should exist? This is the most self-centered logic I’ve ever had the displeasure of interacting with. Do you understand that by misgendering someone you are leading to their mental and physical decline? By refusing to accept someone’s gender may be resulting in gender dysphoria—and, if you’re a  med student like your profile suggests, you know what this is. And you know how it can lead to a person resenting their body, their existence, and may result in physical harm or suicide. 

Regardless of their “appearance,” they identify a certain way. And, by ignoring their identity, you are destroying their confidence and self-worth. Is it really that important that you not learn a different two letter pronoun? You know how many times in your life you will have to refer to someone, outloud, by “ze”? Probably never. Most likely you will never have to say it. But, if someone kindly asks you to do so, why wouldn’t you? It’s a syllable. One syllable which may reassure this person that they exist, that they are human, and that they belong on this planet. 

 We’re all just people. 

You’re right, we are. We are all people. And, as people, we all deserve happiness. Happiness which you are denying someone by ignoring their pronoun preference and gender identity. 

I accept that these may come to be used by future generations, but not by me. 

“I accept that women may not be viewed as property by future generations, but not by me,” 

You are ignoring the past in an attempt to prevent the future. 

Congrats. 

Just wanted to put this out there.

Good.

Normally I don’t reblog posts of people tearing down cissexists, but it does happen. Good on ya asexual-not-a-sexual.
Beguilingblackness, welcome to the archive. 

Tumblr Labels

violentprojectilebile:

Some of the things which should not be used to try and differentiate someone.

Cis
Hetero
Neuro - Typical

These are known as normal. There will always be normal privilege. This is because the vast and overwhelming majority of people are normal. Its sad you are not normal and have harder time compared to those who do fit in the group for which most things are designed and created, but you are a small minority, and there is no real push to integrate you.

In fact, being trans or having a mental disorder requires you to be treated differently. (Go ahead, say you want to be treated the same, and I’ll show you just how quickly you’ll hate it.)

However, people should accept that there are things without a normal.

Sex
Race

These two things are the source of (imo) the largest discriminations in the world today. I don’t think people should be differentiated based on sex or race, and any movement which has a name like {Sex} rights! or {race} rights! is doomed to fail.

I prefer egalitarianism.

I hate people who favour one sex over another.
I hate people who favour one race over another.
I hate people who do and can’t accept that they are just hurting their own cause.

IAMBUGBRENNAN IS CATHY BRENNAN’S NEW TUMBLR

highvoodoopussypope:

So you can block her pre-emptively before she stalks you again.

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